Author Archives: James

The Archers If you don’t live in the UK, or don’t listen to BBC Radio 4,…

Gaslighting is a form of emotional and psychological abuse used by narcissists and abusers in order to…

Internet Dating – Guest Blog by Sally Hope Should I take the plunge? I finally relented…

My own abuse occurred within the context of a bible college. It has taken over a decade…

This was my reaction, when someone told me that they had been burgled because they had forgotten…

The Valley of Dry Bones I am a survivor, and my story has been shared many times,…

Power And Control: Why Charming Men Can Make Dangerous Lovers…

At Restored, we’re passionate that men can and should be active in standing against domestic abuse.

“Dad I’m sorry you’re hurt, I’m sorry I let you down. I…

This blog contains spoilers. In the UK the National Domestic Violence Helpline is 0808 2000 247.

Unholy Charade makes for uncomfortable reading. That is intentional. Over thirty…

Background I was brought up in a loving Christian home, where it was encouraged to welcome everyone.